3 qualities of an elegant woman

Recently I was having a conversation with my friend about elegance and sophistication. After talking to her, I realised that our community has a fixed idea of what elegance should and shouldn't be.

Elegance has become synonymous to being properly and modestly dressed, being extremely polite even though your body language says otherwise and also being reserved. Well to tell you the truth this is just the tip of the iceberg and also very superficial things that are present in majority of the elegant woman out there.

But these qualities are definitely not the only deciding factor in whether a woman is elegant or not. All of us across the globe are a part of a very diverse culture, ethnicities and languages.

What might be acceptable for elegance in India can definitely not qualify as elegant in some other western countries. So in this post I am going to tell you 3 such qualities that an elegant woman must possess.

Talk behind someone's back

Well, this is the number one most sought after quality defining elegant woman. You can tell the person directly what you think about him or her. This will not only help you to avoid any future ugly confrontations but will also improve your image that other's have of you.

Be kind to your servants

I can not stress enough on how important it is to be kind and have compassion for your servants, for your subordinates, and for people in general who have something less than what you have. These things include wealth, health and education.

All of us have a tendency to be on our best behaviour around richer, and more educated people. But what about poorer and less educated people. Our behaviour towards them shows our elegance. Kindness and Compassion are synonymous to Elegance.

Be in control of your emotions

How many of us can say that we are controlling our emotions and not the other way around. Life can put us in difficult situations and we can certainly not be prepared for all the situations. What we can do is how we react a d behave during those situations.

Losing your temper once someone provokes you can be very dangerous for you later in life. People will use this against your interests for their own benefit. As you aspire to move forward in the more refined life, there will be people who will make fun of you and try to bring you down.

So always be in control of your emotions and reserve showing them to your closest and most important people in your life.

That was all for this post. Till then keep reading😊